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  • Why Do People Marry? To Love Or To Control?

    Why Do People Marry? To Love Or To Control?

    When people think of marriage, most conjure up images of the traditional ‘white’ wedding. White dress. White iced wedding cake. Purity and virtue. Innocence and virginity. But did you know that, although marriage is viewed as a declaration of love and commitment today, it most certainly hasn’t always been this way…

    Let’s Take A Look Back…

    If we look back to the very first examples of marriage, way back in 2350 B.C (about 4,350 years ago), we will see that weddings had very little, if anything at all, to do with love, and everything to do with control. How so? Because, through marriage, a woman ultimately became a man’s property, and, to some extent, arguably still does…

    Just think about it… When women marry, they are ‘given away’, typically by their father. Because, God forbid a woman have no man to depend on! How would she ever cope?!

    By marriage, the husband and wife are one person in law: that is, the very being or legal existence of the woman is suspended during the marriage, or at least is incorporated and consolidated into that of the husband: under whose wing, protection, and cover, she performs everything.

    Although today more women are choosing to keep their family name when they marry, in the past, this wasn’t an option. The process of getting wed meant giving up your own name to take on the name of your partner.

    A wife taking her husband’s family name was a sign of the power he held over her/how she was the inferior to his superior…This also granted men ‘exclusive access’ to their wives body, and is where the idea of rape being ‘impossible’ in marriage came from… In fact, shockingly, it wasn’t until the 1970s that rape was deemed to be a criminal offence between married couples. Prior to that, marital rape was inconceivable, as the husband “owned” his wife’s sexuality, it was stated in both religious texts and legal frameworks alike…

    Marriage: An Institution Of Control?

    The fact that marriage was historically so centred around control- the ability for men to control women/for men to exercise their power and establish dominance over women, should see it come as no surprise then that same sex marriage was illegal until just a little over a decade ago (in the UK at least)…

    When marriage was all about a man controlling his wife, the idea of a man marrying another man, or a woman marrying another woman was simply nonsensical.

    Who controls who?…

    Perhaps rather surprisingly, evidence of same sex marriage, albeit not ‘official’, dates back to the pagan civilisations of Greece and Rome (Homosexuality was common in ancient Greece, e.g., Sappho- 570 BC, Nero- 54AD, as two of the most famous examples), and well documented in prose, poetry, music, and through iconic images on pottery).

    why do people marry?
    Nero

    Although not legal, homosexuality wasn’t particularly ‘frowned upon’, so long as there was a clear distinction between the more ‘passive’ (i.e., ‘subordinate) partner, and the more ‘dominant’ one (which makes sense, considering that marriage was all about control, as this ensures that one person- the dominant one- stays in control, acting as the ‘man’ in the relationship to which they can exercise their control over their submissive partner who adopts the role as ‘woman’)…

    Evidently, then, it’s not a ‘man’ problem. It’s not a case of all men being controlling over women simply because they are men; it’s a societal problem.

    Brought up in a patriarchal society in which they are told, from as soon as they’re born pretty much, that they should be the ‘head of the house’, it’s inevitable that boys are going to grow up into men with a superiority complex in which they’re of the belief that women are dependent on them, weaker than them, and under their control…

    Men are not the problem, the social system of patriarchy is the problem.

    Take his name. Take her name. Keep your own name.

    Wear a white dress. Wear a black dress. Wear a suit.

    Do whatever you want to do, so long as you marry, not to ‘own’ each other, or to exercise dominance/submission, but to better each other.

    As all-consuming as love can feel when you’re ‘in’ it, at the end of the day, you’re still you, the only person who has been, and will be, with you forever.

    Don’t give so much of yourself up to another person to the extent that you end up forgetting who you are.

  • Why Are Governments So Complicit In The Climate Emergency?

    Why Are Governments So Complicit In The Climate Emergency?

    The government has set a target to completely negate the amount of greenhouse gases produced by human activity (to be achieved by reducing emissions and implementing methods of absorbing carbon dioxide from the atmosphere), i.e., to go ‘net zero’, by 2050.

    2050.

    Why are we waiting so long to implement the changes that we so desperately need in order to save the planet?


    Already, we are seeing the effects of climate change on a mass scale

    Last year was the hottest year ever recorded in the UK

    It was only last year that the UK had its hottest summer ever recorded since records began in 1884, with temperatures exceeding 40 degrees Celsius (104 Fahrenheit) in July ‘22. For a country whose average summer temperature is between 9 and 18 degrees, and 30 degrees plus is considered a heatwave, 40 degrees was unprecedented.

    The UK is just not built for such an extreme climate.

    We saw roads and railway lines melting.

    We saw hospitals being overwhelmed with an influx of admissions for heat related illnesses, particularly in the older, more vulnerable population.

    We saw weather warnings being issued on a weekly basis.

    We saw restrictions to our usual activity being advised… Not dissimilar to the rules that we were governed by when the country went into lockdown during the global pandemic of COVID-19.

    We saw, with the rising temperatures, people being told to stay indoors where possible, to only go out when necessary.

    We saw it all, and yet, we did nothing.

    And we’re continuing to see it.

    We’re continuing to see wildfires breaking out across the globe.

    Mass draughts.

    Whole species being on the verge of extinction.

    And, perhaps most horrifyingly of all, we’re continuing to see the government’s complete lack of action to do anything that will slow the effects of climate change down… In fact, it was only last month (September ‘23) that British Prime Minister Rishi Sunak declared that he was delaying some of the measures that were set to be imposed in the efforts to slow, what is, as of 2019 (4 years ago and yet, here we are, still doing the same old shit), being declared as, a climate ‘emergency.’

    The decision to outlaw the sale of all new petrol and diesel cars by 2030 (which, personally, I think is still far too late. What are we waiting for?) has been delayed by a further 5 years, until 2035. Just to make sure the environment as polluted as it can possibly be!

    Our lack of inaction towards climate change is completely nonsensical

    Why has the ban been delayed, then, when we are in such a dire situation? Why would any government delay the measures that we so desperately need when we are, quite literally, on the precipice of entering the point of no return?!

    To answer the ‘why’, and it’s a very dissatisfactory reason, I’m afraid, in Rishi Sunak’s words, to ‘ease the burden on motorists during the cost of living crisis.’

    The ‘cost of living crisis!’

    Mr Sunak, OPEN YOUR EYES!

    The biggest ‘cost of living crisis’ we are in is related to climate change.

    Photo by Chris Gallagher on Unsplash

    When whole countries become uninhabitable due to mass famine and floods and wildfires, what good will an ‘eased burden on motorists’ be?

    An electric car won’t help us all when, in the future, the planet has been made completely impossible to live on…

    A boat, yes.

    A coffin, definitely.

    But not a car.

    And so, this is the greatest burden- the prospect of there being no planet at all…

    When you think about it like this, you realise just how ridiculous the whole situation is.

    Double standards meet hypocrisy, a government classic…

    If we knew that there was a terrorist plot to wipe out the UK, we would immediately act. We would ramp up our security, we would try to minimise, if not completely prevent, any harm coming to anyone. And yet, with the climate crisis, despite us having known about the risks it poses for years and years, not just to the UK, but to the world, we do nothing.

    We could have a massive banner being flown across the UK telling us that we are all going to die if we don’t change our ways, and people would still look the other way. People would still go about their daily lives as they have always done, because to change their lifestyle is ‘too much of an inconvenience…’

    We need to take action while we can…

    Oh, how our children will wish that they had the luxury of convenience when the world around them is coming to an end…

    Oh, how our children will wish that we did something when we could, before it was too late.

    Oh, how we must all wish that the people in power do something while they still can.

  • Gavin Plumb: Why Did He Want To Murder Holly Willoughby?

    Gavin Plumb: Why Did He Want To Murder Holly Willoughby?

    On Thursday the 5th of October, one of Britain’s most high-profile television personalities, Holly Willoughby, was unexpectedly forced to pull out of ITV’s talk show, ‘This Morning…’ The reason being that a plot to kidnap and murder her was brought to light just moments before she was due to appear live on air.

    The suspect? 36 year old father of two, Gavin Plumb, from Harlow in Essex.

    How It All Unfolded

    Plumb was arrested on Wednesday 4th October when his flat was raided after a plot to kidnap and murder the star was foiled. Essex Police found ‘sinister messages’ threatening ‘serious harm’ on his phone (which has since been seized)…

    Plumb, as well as having weapons and a restraint kit which he intended to use to kidnap Holly, had also contacted a hitman in the US, David Nelson, with this hitman being set to fly to the UK next week to murder Holly (Plumb had already arranged flights to and from the UK for said hitman)…

    Appearing in court on Friday 6th October, accused of offences including soliciting to commit murder and incitement to commit kidnap, prosecuting solicitor Shefa Begum told the court Plumb was part of a ‘vast network of like-minded individuals’ and had a ‘detailed plan.’

    Who is Gavin Plumb?

    A bit of background information on Plumb…

    Gavin Plumb
    Gavin Plumb

    Gavin was the ‘star’ of a BBC feature on weight loss in 2018, writing a diary for the corporation after he hit 35 stone, and appearing on Radio 5Live twice.

    Plumb told the BBC:

    ‘My weight has always fluctuated. At my heaviest, I was 35-and-a-half stone. When the weight started to pile on, that was when my mental health really went down.

    I’m pretty much in pain everywhere. I get chest pains and I’ve just been told it’s because of my weight.

    The last time I went out unaided was 2014 — it was my parents’ wedding vow renewal.

    I hate sitting indoors. I hate looking at the same four walls 24/7. I hate being the size I am.’

    Is Gavin Plumb An Incel?

    Incels, or ‘involuntary celibates’, are heterosexual men who blame women and society for their lack of romantic success.

    There has been several cases of so called ‘incels’ committing the most abhorrent acts against humanity, particularly women since this is where their anger really resides. One example can be seen in the horrific case of the Plymouth mass shooting in 2021. Jake Davison, a twenty-two-year-old man, killed five people following an argument with his mum (his mum was his first victim, as well as a three-year-old girl)…

    Davison was an active member of many online forums which promoted the incel ‘ideology’, and within which Davison shared his own hate-filled, misogynistic and violent views via…

    On social media, Davison twice likened himself to an ‘incel’, and he would frequently complain about a lack of friends and support network, with videos posted online prior to the mass shooting seeing him describing his life as being ‘just me against the world’.

    This is a common theme amongst the incel ‘community’- a feeling of loneliness, a feeling of ‘failing’ at life, and of needing an outlet to direct those feelings towards, an outlet which, unfortunately, can all too often end in tragedy, as it did with Jake Davison and the mass shooting in 2021, and as it could’ve quite easily done, again, with Gavin Plumb and Holly Willoughby had the plan not been foiled in time…

    Jake Davison

  • Is The British Government Transphobic?

    Is The British Government Transphobic?

    The speech delivered by Rishi Sunak today (04/10/23) at the Conservative party conference in Manchester was shockingly bad, even for the Tories.

    ‘We shouldn’t get bullied into thinking that people can be any sex they want to be. A man is a man and a woman is a woman and that’s just common sense’, Sunak said in one sentence.

    ‘The conservatives are the party that legislated for same-sex marriage. Love cascades down the generations’, he said in the next… 

    Preaching love and hate in the same sentence… 

    It’s just contradictory, 
    hypocritical, 
    completely messed up.

    The only thing ‘cascading down the generations’ where the Tories are concerned is hate. They wouldn’t know what love is if it slapped them around the face…

    And yes, this might all just be a ‘culture war’, a desperate attempt by the Tories to appeal to the far right of the party, but for people who are directly affected by this extremely bigoted talk (i.e., trans people), it feels like a war against them. Like a war against their right to be who they are. Like a war against their right to live, essentially…


    Transgender women will be banned from being treated in female hospital wards in England, under new proposals suggested by the health secretary, Steve Barclay. Why? To ‘restore common sense in the NHS’, as backed by Home Secretary Suella Braverman…

    ‘Trans women have no place in women’s wards, or indeed in any safe space relating to biological women.’

    Describing transgender women as ‘biological men’ is not least offensive, but also incredibly harmful. With transgender people already increasingly at risk of suffering from their mental ill health (nine in ten young trans adults in the UK have had suicidal thoughts), comments such as these put trans people at even greater risk of harming themselves…

    Whilst only 0.5% of the UK population have a different gender identity to their assigned sex at birth (Census 2021), for those 0.5%, this speech may have just invalidated their whole identity.

    ‘A man is a man and a woman is a woman.’

    What about all the people who are nonbinary, who don’t identify as fully male or fully female, but as somewhere in the middle, maybe, or people who don’t exist on the binary at all? For all of these people, their whole identity is completely dismissed by the Tories.

    We might have the first Indian-origin Prime Minister, and one of the most diverse governments we’ve ever had in terms of ethnic diversity, but we also seemingly have one of the most bigoted.

    Breaking the glass ceiling, then pulling up the ladder, welcome to Tory Britian.

  • When COFFEE Was Illegal: Is The Law The Ultimate Source Of Control In Society?

    When COFFEE Was Illegal: Is The Law The Ultimate Source Of Control In Society?

    Rules are not enforced to keep us safe, but to keep them safely in their positions of power.

    *(The government)…

    When COFFEE Was Illegal…

    In the 1500s, coffee was banned in Mecca (Saudi Arabia), when it was suggested that people were visiting coffee houses throughout the city to air their grievances about the government.

    Fearing that the gathering of people in coffee houses could lead to an organised revolution/ a ‘political uprising’ (the prospect of people coming together to simply talk and share ideas was a problematic one for some rulers- it posed a threat to their ideals), the governor stepped in and banned coffee and coffee houses within the city.

    Coffee was deemed to be ‘too dangerous’, not because of any health risks it posed, but because of the ‘revolution’ risks that it, apparently, posed (people coming together in coffee houses to discuss plans on how to ‘change the system’)…

    COFFEE

    Fiction Disguised As Fact

    To justify the ban, it was ruled that coffee was ‘against the Islamic religion’ and ‘sinful.’ The reality, though? That the people in power feared that it would open people’s eyes to the reality of society.

    ‘Coffee makes us severe, and grave, and philosophical’

    Jonathan Swift, 1722

    Evidently, then, the ban on coffee was really a ban against freedom (of the masses). It was all about control, and the governments need to stay in it, with this need for control not just being seen in the traditionally more controlled Middle-Eastern countries like Saudi Arabia, but also much closer to home in the Western World…

    Coffee Was Banned In The UK?!

    In 1652, Pasqua Rosée opened the first coffee house in London, prompting a revolution in London society.

    ‘British culture was intensely hierarchical and structured. The idea that you could go and sit next to someone as an equal was radical.’

    Markman Ellis.

    In 1672, however, the then ruler of England, King Charles II, off the back of his increasing paranoia about his subjects gathering to talk politics via ‘rebellious’ discussions, declared that ‘Men have assumed to themselves a liberty in Coffee-houses to censure and defame the proceedings of State by speaking evil of things they understand not...’

    To combat this ‘evil’, Secretary of State Sir Joseph Williamson embedded a network of spies in London coffee houses. Not long after this, in December of 1675, Charles II ordered the closure of all coffee houses in London.

    Despite the ban only lasting 11 days (coffee was already, by the time the ban was introduced, a massive part of British culture, and it was, quite clearly, here to stay), just the fact that it was imposed in the first place, and the reasons given for it, prove just how far people were willing to go for power…

  • The Senseless Killing Of British School Girl Elianne Andam

    The Senseless Killing Of British School Girl Elianne Andam

    ‘Men Fear Being Laughed At’, ‘Women Fear Being Killed’: How Complicit Attitudes Towards Misogyny Are Killing Our Youth.


    As women, we’ve historically been told that we need men to ‘protect’ us, because, on our own, we are weak, vulnerable little things, at risk from all the woes of society.

    How ironic.

    The very same people who inform us of our need for their protection are precisely those from whom we need protecting…

    In England and Wales, 92% of female murder victims were killed by men in the year ending March 2021.

    The fact that so many women are dying at the hands of men is a stark reminder of just how volatile a situation it is to be a woman in the world today…

    Behind every woman killed at the hands of a man, there is a trail of grief, wasted potential, missed opportunities, and unspent love…

    On Wednesday morning (27/09), a 15-year-old girl (named yesterday as Elianne Andam) was stabbed to death in Croydon, South London, whilst on her way to school.

    Breaking news came this morning (29/09) that a 17 year old boy has been charged with Eliannes murder (and possession of a knife). He cannot be named for legal reasons due to his age, but he awaits trial at the Old Bailey where he is due to appear on Tuesday (03/10), and will be remanded in youth detention (custody) until then.

    All stabbings, all loss of lives are tragic, of course, but, this one has had a particularly profound impact on people, including people who didn’t even know Elianne…

    Since this tragic (and wholly senseless) killing was reported, there have been swathes of messages of condolences coming in from people expressing their shock and horror at how this could happen.’

    How could an innocent young life be so maliciously taken away on our streets?

    The 17 year old boy who has been charged with Eliannes murder was reportedly known to Elianne, something which is, terrifyingly, not a surprise. The most recent data from the ONS shows that 60% of women killed in England or Wales last year (2022) knew their suspected killer.

    This has opened up a conversation online surrounding femicide, and how women are made to live in fear that they won’t come home simply for rejecting a mans advances, or, as has been reported as having happened in this case, stepping in to help a friend who is trying to reject a mans advances…


    On Wednesday morning, when Elianne was fatally stabbed, an argument had allegedly broken out between Elianne’s friend and her friend’s boyfriend (the murderer) while they were travelling on a bus. The boy tried to give Elianne’s friend a bouquet of flowers and a love note, but she didn’t want to know. After disembarking the bus, the argument continued as they were seen fighting over a bag containing Elianne’s friend’s belongings. A witness reported that it was in this moment that Elianne tried to get in between the pair to retrieve her friend’s belongings from the bag. With tensions running high, Elianne was fatally stabbed (multiple times) as a result.

    At The Scene Of The Stabbing: The Flowers That The Argument Allegedly Centred On Pictured Above…

    Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.

    The only thing that men have to fear in the company of women is the embarrassment of being rejected. Women, however, have to fear being killed.

    Don’t Be Complicit In Misogyny

    If you’re a man, and you’re with a group of friends who are misogynistic, make your disapproval towards the attitudes they hold known…

    Some men, especially teenagers who are impressionable, act from a place of wanting to earn respect from other men. They think that by objectifying women, they will earn respect within a ‘lad culture’ that ultimately promotes such misogynistic attitudes. Making it clear that you don’t want to be a part of that culture, however, means that your friends are less likely to act in such a hateful way towards women, because they have no one to impress.

    Had another boy stood up for Elianne’s friend on the bus on Wednesday morning, maybe there would’ve been a different outcome. Alas, because no boy did stand up for her, Elianne did, and got herself murdered in the process…

    Ultimately, we need to reform the way that men view women. We need to transform the whole essence of what ‘lad culture’ means. We need to ensure that treating women with respect and condemning misogynistic attitudes is the norm. We need to do this so that women can walk the streets and live their lives, without living in fear that their lives will be cut short at the hands of a man (or rather, at the hands of a mans warped ideas of what it means to be a ‘man’)…

  • Why Suella Braverman Is Flawed In Her Perspective Of Asylum Seekers

    Why Suella Braverman Is Flawed In Her Perspective Of Asylum Seekers

    Suella Braverman (Sue-Ellen Cassiana Braverman), British politician and home secretary of the United Kingdom, has been caught up in controversy this week following a speech that she delivered in the US on Tuesday (26/09) surrounding migration.

    In her speech, Braverman, in her criticism of the West’s current migration rules, proposed that we, in essence, should scale back the refuge that we offer to gay people and women, claiming that ‘the asylum system will break if people are given sanctuary for simply being gay, or a woman.’

    I’ve written before about the importance of recognising our privelige in the world, and the necessity for us to realise that, just because something isn’t affecting us (it’s certainly not effecting Braverman, a straight, upper middle class woman in the UK), it doesn’t mean that it isn’t affecting others. The reason I bring this up is because Suella Braverman seems to either be extremely ignorant, or to have simply forgotten (and I don’t know which is worse to be honest), the fact that it is still a crime to be gay in 67 countries around the world, with 11 of those countries (as of 2023) imposing the death penalty on people who are gay.

    What is an Asylum Seeker, and why should we be helping them?

    According to Amnesty International, the world’s leading human rights organisation, the definition of an asylum seeker is;

    ‘A person who has left their country and is seeking protection from persecution and serious human rights violations in another country.’

    Is being at risk of being killed for loving someone of the same sex not enough of a human rights violation? Amnesty International go on to write that;

    ‘Seeking asylum is a human right. This means everyone should be allowed to enter another country to seek asylum.’

    As a human right then, why is Suella Braverman proposing that we take away that right for people?

    I’ve focused on Braverman’s comment towards gay people thus far, but the same applies to her proposal that being a woman isn’t ‘enough’ to seek asylum either. With only 14 countries having full equal rights for women, again, I have to question Braverman’s logic.

    Women’s right to seek asylum

    In the UK, we’re fortunate to have made so much progress in terms of women having equal rights to men. We might not be there yet, (the issue of misogyny is still a very real one), but we do have the right to an education. We can go to work. We do, on the whole, have access to the same opportunities as our male counterparts (to reiterate again, there is still progress to be made, we’re still not ‘there’, but, compared to other countries around the world, we are not denied basic human rights for being a woman).

    As a woman in a very high up position in government-the home secretary- Braverman is perhaps blindsided to the very real situation that many women around the world find themselves in, but when she is in such a position of power, and when she has the potential to help women who are less fortunate than herself, she is choosing not to do so. Instead, she is choosing to withdraw help.

    ‘Being a woman isn’t enough to seek asylum.’

    This is despite the fact that, in Afghanistan (as just one example of a country where human rights for women are pretty much non-existent), women have severe restrictions placed on them. They cannot leave their homes unless it is a necessity to do so. They can only travel long distances with a male chaperone. They are at risk of imprisonment, or worse, if they speak up for their rights.

    Afghans who do take to the streets to protest for their rights are being threatened, arrested and tortured. Women’s rights activists report there have been detentions, child marriages, forced marriages and rapes.

    Why, when we have the ability to offer a safe place for women like those in Afghanistan, women who arguably have no quality of life and have to live in fear every single day, would we deny them of that? Why would we deny women the opportunity to come to a country where they can actually have the right to live, not just exist?

    It’s a slippery slope when we start deeming some victims of war/torture/human rights violations (however you want to describe what they’re going through), as more or less deserving than others. Because, to reference Amnesty International’s definition of an Asylum seeker again, someone who is ‘seeking protection from persecution and serious human rights violations in another country’, we have the duty and the responsibility to provide that protection to them. Not just because it’s a basic human right (though it is), but because we should want to be nice, decent human beings, admittedly, something which the Tories are historically not very good at… Just look at the Bibby Stockholm barge controversy, described by some as a ‘floating prison’, as I wrote about here, which, surprise surprise, Suella Braverman also introduced, alongside her plan to send asylum seekers to Rwanda (she went as far as saying that it was her ‘dream’ to see a deportation flight taking off to Rwanda)… The latter thankfully didn’t go ahead, not because Braverman had a sudden shift in conscience, though (I wish), but because the Court of Appeal deemed it unlawful, stating that Rwanda was not a ‘safe third country.’

    If Braverman had it her way, the UK would welcome no asylum seekers, I have no doubt about that. They’d all be put on a plane and sent somewhere else. Her logic seems to be that if we look away and can’t see it happening, then it’s not happening. ‘Out of sight out of mind…’ Which is really sad, not only because Braverman is a woman, so you’d think that she’d have more compassion for all the women who are seeking asylum, but also because her own parents are immigrants.

    I wonder if she’d be more willing to offer help if it were a fellow privately educated Tory requiring respite? ‘We look out for our own’, and all that…

    Hope For Humanity

    All we can hope is that the backlash Braverman’s speech has resulted in will make her reconsider what she has proposed. A proposal that, if it does indeed come into fruition, will signify a very dark day for humanity.

    And so, let us all hold out hope that, this time, morals will prevail over money.

  • Should Drugs Be Decriminalised?

    Should Drugs Be Decriminalised?

    As something that we put into our bodies, it makes no sense to me that drugs are illegal.

    BANNING DRUGS WON’T STOP PEOPLE FROM TAKING DRUGS

    If we consider what drugs actually are, all drugs come from natural sources. Cocaine, for example, is extracted from coca leaves, weed from the cannabis plant, heroin from the Papaver somniferum plant. Drugs get such a bad rap in our society but, ultimately, they’re just a part of nature, and have been used by humans since the beginning of time…

    Whether rightly or wrongly, drugs are a massive part of so many peoples lives. The universality of drug use throughout human history has led some experts to conclude that the desire to alter consciousness, for whatever reason, is a basic human drive. People in almost all cultures, in every era from prehistoric times*,have used psychoactive drugs.

    *(Archaeological evidence indicates the presence of psychoactive plants and drug use in early hominid species about 200 million years ago).

    For something that has been in our lives for so long, making drugs illegal, as we well know, will not stop people from taking them, for they have become so ingrained in our culture…

    BANNING DRUGS IS DANGEROUS, JUST LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENED WHEN ALCOHOL WAS BANNED…

    Although alcohol has never been illegal in the UK, the first half of the 20th century saw periods of prohibition of alcoholic beverages in several countries, including the US (1920–1933), whereby the manufacture, transportation, and sale of intoxicating liquors was banned.

    Making alcohol illegal didn’t stop people from drinking it, though, it just drove the market underground instead.

    Organised crime took control of the distribution of alcohol, the most notorious example being Chicago gangster ‘Al Capone’, who earned a staggering $60 million annually from bootleg operations. This led to a massive increase in gang violence as a result, as street gangs would fight each other over alcohol distribution and sale, much as organised crime gangs fight each other today over illegal drugs.

    When alcohol became legal, however, gangs formed on the basis of selling alcohol disappeared, as there was no ‘underground’ trade anymore. People could purchase alcohol from their local corner shop. This not only eliminated the risk of gang violence between the people selling alcohol, but it was also so much safer for the people drinking alcohol. How so? Because buying alcohol underground led to thousands of people dying each year due to the alcohol they were buying being tainted with toxins…

    drugs should be decriminalised

    It was because of such dangers associated with the underground trade of alcohol that saw prohibition coming to an end in 1933, and alcohol being decriminalised.

    BENEFITS OF THE DECRIMINALISATION OF DRUGS

    As we saw happen when alcohol was decriminalised, decriminalising drugs would not only see crime rates decreasing, but it would also see health improving, as people would be more likely to seek help for their addiction.

    When drugs are illegal, not only is the person addicted likely dealing with the stigma and shame surrounding being an ‘addict’, and all the connotations that such a label brings with it, but they will also most likely be dealing with the stigma and shame of, legally speaking, being a ‘criminal.’ It’s unsurprising, given this, that people, when they become addicted to drugs, don’t seek the help they need, precisely because of the stigma and shame they feel. They might fear the repercussions that may arise if they do attempt to seek help for their drug use, i.e., the police getting involved since, after all, they are committing an offense in the eyes of the law.

    The reality, though, is that most people take drugs, not out of a desire to be a full-time criminal, but in an attempt to block something out.

    It makes no sense to me that drugs are illegal, yet alcohol, which is just as harmful, isn’t. In fact, not only is alcohol legal, but it is also pushed on us, with people who don’t drink alcohol often being perceived more negatively than people who do

    Why are people who are all for the criminalisation of drugs so pro-alcohol?

    As a chemical that affects our bodies, alcohol results in more premature deaths and illnesses than all illicit drugs combined. Yet instead of being taken seriously, alcohol is valued as a commodity, a ‘necessity of life’, even…

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    Alcohol Has Become Synonymous With ‘Having Fun…’

    There shouldn’t be one rule for one thing and another rule for another. It just doesn’t make sense.

    We either need to decriminalise drugs, or we need to criminalise alcohol. And because bans historically do not work, (not to mention the fact that the Tories love a drink #downitstreet #definitelyameeting), the decriminalisation of drugs, really, is the only viable option.

  • Do People Really Think That Lesbianism Doesn’t Exist?

    Do People Really Think That Lesbianism Doesn’t Exist?

    Something that completely baffles me is how LGBTQ+ people have historically been treated in society, particularly in the context of the criminal justice system.

    As of 2023, only 34 countries out of 195 recognise same-sex marriage. In the UK, it only became legal 9 years ago (2014)- crazy! And, it isn’t just marriage, either. Using the UK as an example, as that is where I am writing from, just a little over 50 years ago, being gay (as in, two men engaging in sexual activity) wasn’t just frowned upon, it was a crime and punishable by significant jail time. It wasn’t decriminalised until as late as 1967, meaning that any Gay British man over the age of 56 would’ve grown up being fed the narrative that they were ‘wrong’, simply for being themselves…

    Bizarrely, though, this rule has never applied to women. Female homosexuality has never been explicitly targeted by any legislation. Homosexual women have never had the same sanctions imposed upon them as homosexual men (i.e., to be a gay woman has never been a crime)…

    Although there are no ‘official’ reasons out there as to why same sex relationships between women has never been a crime whereas same sex relationships between men very much has been [a crime], looking at it from a feminist perspective, I would question if the reason for this is because female sexuality has long been regarded as relatively ‘unimportant.’ Assumed to be sexually innocent and either passive or ‘desireless’, women have traditionally been thought to not really ‘enjoy’ sex, but to do it out of ‘duty’, almost.

    Lots of men assume that women couldn’t possibly be intimate because they love each other; they assume that it’s solely for their benefit, to ‘turn them on’, with this being largely in thanks to the eroticisation of lesbianism in the media…

    Images of lesbianism (between two feminine, gender-conforming women) are targeted towards heterosexual men in advertising, film, and pornography, something which serves to uphold the narrative that same-sex relationships between women are not ‘real’… Because women ‘require’ men, they need a man’s protection (eye roll, sick emoji, major ick, all of the above), so how can lesbianism possibly be real? A phase, perhaps, but not a long-term thing, surely?

    Shock horror, and you might want to sit down for this revelation: women can be intimate with women even when there’s no camera to record it for men’s viewing/even when there’s no straight man to observe it. Who would’ve thought it? Women can (and do) have sex for their own pleasure!

    This is one side of the argument for why female homosexuality has, historically, not been subject to the same scrutiny as male homosexuality… Because men were simply unable to fathom how lesbianism could possibly be real, despite the fact that evidence of it dates back to as early as the 3rd century (around 620BCE), when the poet Sappho was writing around the themes of love and infatuation between women. In fact, it is because of Sappho, who was born in Lesbos, that a homosexual woman came to be known as a ‘Lesbian’ (‘Lesbian’ literally translates to ‘resident of the Isle of Lesbos’)…

    It is such a lack of belief that lesbianism is ‘real’ that saw an attempt to amend the criminal law amendment bill so that it would see ‘gross indecency’ between females being made an offence, something which has always been limited to males, being shelved. Why? Due to a perceived lack of evidence that such acts actually take place, thus revealing the general invisibility of female sexuality in the eyes of men…

    The other side of the argument is that men (the lawmakers) did recognise the existence of female homosexuality, but they didn’t want to publicise it and, in order to criminalise lesbianism, they would have had to [publicise it] (i.e., they would’ve had to confirm its existence)… In terms of why men didn’t want women to realise that lesbainism was a ‘thing’, it’s likely to be because they thought that; to recognise its existence would be to threaten the patriarchal ideal- the ‘picture perfect’ society. In contrast, they thought that, by turning a blind eye to female homosexuality, ‘respectable women’, such as, God Forbid, their wives and their daughters, wouldn’t be encouraged/intrigued? to pursue same sex relationships/to ensure that they [women] were not made aware of a different way of life…

    The fact of the matter is, though, that same sex relations between women quite obviously is real, and that, it doesn’t matter how much people try to tell us otherwise, whilst ever the world is still spinning, love will always win, it will always prevail, as the history books prove because…

    LOVE IS LOVE!

  • Is Radical Self Love The Antidote to Capitalism?

    Is Radical Self Love The Antidote to Capitalism?

    Loving yourself shouldn’t be a radical thing to do, but in a society that capitalises on self-hate, to love yourself is the most radical thing you can do…


    Big bum, small waist, small bum, curvy waist, the ‘in’ thing is constantly shifting form.

    It is for this reason that so many people are turning to surgery, because it allows one an opportunity to entirely reconstruct their body.

    I have nothing against cosmetic surgery, in and of itself. I very much believe that people should have the choice to do whatever they want with their bodies, and if that means going under the knife, then so be it. But what I am against, however, is a society that makes us feel like we must have surgery, or like we must wear makeup, or like we must lose weight in order for us to be worthy.

    In such a sorrowful situation as this, whereby we are told that we are inherently ‘wrong’, it’s no wonder that eating disorders continue to wreak havoc on so many lives.

    Boys are being diagnosed with eating disorders at an unprecedented rate.

    Whereas once upon a time it was only women who had the pleasure of having every element of their bodies microanalysed and deemed to be either ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ (insecure women were seen as an ‘easy target’, easy to manipulate), now society is getting greedy. It wants to sell more. Because of this, boys and men are now also being fed the extremely harmful narrative of there being a ‘right’ body and a ‘wrong’ body…’

    As something that you must live inside of, every single day, for all of your days (your body), it’s extremely difficult, if not impossible, to ignore the offer of a solution to stop you feeling ‘wrong’. It is for this reason, this desperation that people feel to be accepted, that explains why any industry concerning changing our bodies in some way- The diet industry, cosmetics/makeup, surgery, clothes, fitness– are all so profitable.

    These industries are so profitable because our supposed ‘shortcomings’ are impossible to ignore when they’re not just something that we acquire, like a phone, for example. If you were told that your phone was too outdated and no longer ‘in’, you’d just go out and buy a new one. When we’re told that our biggest shortcomings are our bodies, though, we cannot just go out and buy a new one. Instead, we buy the only thing on offer, momentary relief.

    Like a carrot being dangled in front of us, constantly, we’re forever chasing the wholly unattainable temptation that we’re offered, despite none of it, not even society itself, being real…*

    Cartoon to show the 'dangling carrot' analogy.

    *(When I talk about ‘society’ here, I’m referring to the structure of society, all of which is, and, I hate to be so repetitive but it has to be said, rooted in capitalism).

    A structure as deep-rooted as capitalism will, inevitably, take time to break down. I’m not naïve enough to think otherwise. But we can revolt.

    We made society, so we can change it.